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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That's a little Henry VIII for my tastes.  I think most people instinctual assume/prefer that any children they have will be biologically theirs, [b]but telling your SO that this preference outweighs your desire to build a life with them is nuts.[/b]

If you are still willing to marry him I'd have a fertility workup now and make him pay for it.  He's making it a condition of marriage it should be at his expense.[/quote]

Also, the people harping on him would be singing a different tune if OP were a man and his girlfriend had said this. [/quote]

This^. Double standards because majority of the posters here are women. [/quote]

People would say he must try to stay with her even if she said she'd leave him if he was physically unable to father children? Is that what you are saying?[/quote]

Nobody is saying if she should stay or leave, just stating the fact that lots of people date and break up if they aren't compatible. There is no need to assign blame here for personal preferences to move forward or not. [/quote]

His “personal preference” reflects that he doesn’t truly love his girlfriend. That’s the issue.[/quote]

His preference is for his girlfriend to not have a medical issue completely outside her control.[/quote]

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