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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will go first.

- No sleepovers.  I have held 1/2 sleepovers...(kids wear PJ's, have fun but get picked up at 11:00 pm).

- No dating in HS.

- No carpools for my kids.  We did offer rides and ran carpools for our friend's children if they asked for it but never for mine. [/quote]

I'm curious about the no dating in HS thing.  How do you prevent your 16 year old, for example, from having a boyfriend?  She is out of the house at school for a large part of the day, and then presumably is allowed out with friends at least occasionally.  How do you prevent her from having a romantic interest, which is so natural and normal at that age? [/quote]

My kids were high achieving and liked being in a very demanding and rigorous  academic program (4th -12th grade).  However, they had  very little free time for romance.  Between ECs, sports, volunteer work, field trips and academics, my kids had an insanely long school day.  Weekends was usually competitions, tournaments, travelling, homework, test prep, catching up on sleep, socializing with friends, leisure time and family time.  Also, students in their cohort were as busy as them - so there was no one who was really dating. Maybe one or two couple.  I am sure romantic interest and crushes did happen but there was no time to act upon them.   
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EC, sports, fields trips, etc are all great ways to spend time with a boyfriend/girlfriend.[/quote]

LOL. Ok. Everyone is a slut/man whore. Happy?   [/quote]

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