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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH grew up in a family that ate standing around the kitchen, on the couch, asynchronously etc - they did not have formalized meals. As a result, DH doesn’t know how to set a table. [/quote]

What did you expect?[/quote]

Most adults would expect him to easily learn how to properly set a table, plates, cutlery and cups

Bfd. Learn it.

Once you learn it you don’t have to keep being retaught it or keep letting down others.

If this is your power and control move - not doing basic things correctly to piss off your loved ones- then get a divorce. [/quote]

Or, pick your battles. You don't need to die on every hill.[/quote]

Or divorce. Life’s too short to live with a messy idiot and pretend he’s not a messy idiot. [/quote]

What a trivial reason to break up a family.  [/quote]

The thing about this stuff is it's usually part of a pattern of behavior.  Of course no one's just going to leave their spouse over one thing like this, it's usually just the straw that breaks the camels back.

The whole "she left me  because I left my dishes by the sink" problem.

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/she-divorced-me-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink_b_9055288[/quote]

Oh, let's quote the HuffPo from a decade ago as if that's convincing.  The fact is that author failed as a husband, so why should I believe he ever understood?

I know women here think they want their husbands to do all the chores, but those women are quite mistaken.  Women don't really want a man to split the chores: they want a successful man who doesn't need to do the chores.  [/quote]

That’s a book and website and ADHD man wrote. It’s widely cited in many places besides HuffPost. [/quote]

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