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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op - the reason I mentioned adhd in the post title is bc if I hadn’t everyone would have said ‘he probably has adhd, you should get him tested’.

The problem is not the adhd it’s denial of how much lack of follow through and lack of emotional regulation affects his family. We are flying tom. I have been so slammed lately that I let him book the flights for the first time. I sent him the link. But instead of booking that link he booked one with a 5 hour layover.

Also I asked him to pay to reserve seats. But I knew he somehow wouldn’t. And he didn’t. When I get frustrated [b]he says oh I did do it they screwed up. [/b]

[b]He refuses to take accountability and acts like I am unreasonable[/b]. I want to stand in the middle of the street and scream as loudly as I possibly can sometimes.

But mainly I am so so mad at myself that I let myself fall for this guy that was handsome and funny and nice to me and didn’t notice that he had [b]no intention of taking being an adult seriously[/b]. The self hatred is the worst part [/quote]

Ugh, sorry.

Unf this second part is the real problem, not the constant mess ups, but they lying, deflecting and blaming others. Anything to protect their false image and ego that they know wtf is ever going on.

They’re utterly unreliable. [/quote]

Except as ER Dr....[/quote]

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