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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]High earning big shot guys marry women who are like them. Other very well educated women from similar backgrounds. The days of having a fancy but useless princess trophy wife are largely over. The woman usually leans out from her career when kids come into the picture, but not before that. And even then, it’s a cut back to say, government or non-profit work, “40 hour a week” type jobs from Biglaw or Big Tech etc. It almost doesn’t even matter what she looks like - look at the old NYT wedding announcements - lots of equally horse-faced wealthy WASP couples. [/quote]

Haha yes OP I am married to what this person is looking for - cardiologist. But I'm a lawyer and we met in college. There has been some leaning in and leaning out on my end but I have my own career and was definitely gung ho about in my 20s and pre kids. We are equals. I fit in great with his friends and colleagues and spouses.

Also most doctors are not rich enough for what you are envisioning. Someone with a chauffeur, cook etc on top of a nanny? This person is clueless even about tht level of wealth she's envisioning.[/quote]

That too. She’s trying to marry into essentially generational wealth or like, investment banking levels of money. Good luck with that if you’re not from that type of background yourself! [/quote]

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