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[quote=Anonymous]People who get most upset are people pleasers or hijackers/busybodies. For people pleasers 1. It feels like an obligation and they feel guilty saying no. 2. It can be expensive and time consuming, saying yes to the wedding means saying no to something else. 3. PP often were raised by pushy, hijackers. They will get pounced on some relative looking to make it a family meet up. For hijackers/busybodies 1. Any event becomes about them. They want their side showing up. They want to be in charge of organizing and controlling their side. 2. They turn it into a family reunion. They want to show off their grand kids. They want their cousins there. 3. They feel a wedding or any event should be the way they would do it.[/quote]
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