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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t have kids and it’s just sex. [/quote]

It’s never just sex if you are married. [/quote]
I am married and to me, it’s just sex with ONS.[/quote]

And lying, manipulation, minimization, justifications and comparisons.  It’s never just sex.[/quote]
So says you…[/quote]

It isn’t cheating if it doesn’t involve lying, manipulation, minimization, justifications and comparisons.  Otherwise it is ethical non-monogamy and ONS are agreed upon between the spouses.  Hard to believe you are old enough to type, but immature enough to believe the crap you tell yourself when justifying selfish and unacceptable behaviors.

I guess you liked middle school so much you decided to stay there mentally and emotionally.  [/quote]
I never cared much for school. I did however graduate from college and went into the family business. As a matter of fact, for not caring too much about school, I’m pretty damn well off and happy. 😎[/quote]

Yet you believe sex is just sex when you are cheating?  Maybe delusional instead of mentally and emotionally immature?[/quote]

Why the wanting to have your cake (faithful spouse) and eat it too (not having sex with your spouse)? What gives? My conclusion after reading about this on DCUM for over a decade is that people with low sex drives do not understand how important sex is to people with higher drives. I don't make my spouse eat healthy just because I want to lose weight.[/quote]

Actually I was the higher sex drive partner and my WW was the lower libido partner.   Affairs are not about sex for everyone, in her case it was the chance to be someone else for a moment.   No kids, no responsibilities, no commitments, just being desired.  I carried all the weight of our life, so she could pretend life didn’t exist.[/quote]

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