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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a married man who is in shape and wife is not.

Still love her, but yes - it sucks OP.

Obviously people can get cosmetic surgery to look better; but being fit just takes some minor discipline.  Eating half decent and maybe 6-7 hours a week to be active/exercise.

It is not that hard.

Getting a 6 pack abs type in shape is next level, but to not have a belly or back fat is easy.[/quote]

6-7 hours a week?! When I am also raising our kids, working full time, doing laundry, taxes, meal planning..do you think the average working mom either kids at home has that much free time?![/quote].

Yup.  One hour out of 24 dedicated to yourself is reasonable to expect.

…and eating half decent.[/quote]

Expectations... but no action on your part? So premeditated resentments...

FOH with this "expectations" about other people's bodies and how they should keep them FOR YOU while you do nothing but sit back and expect based on how you see things and want things. What an utterly entitled way to treat someone you claim to love. Absolutely disgusting.

If you tell me that you watch the kids for 3 hours and cook her meals, then maybe we can have a talk about your expected return on that labor YOU are willing to put in. Otherwise, STFU and miss me entirely with this mess.[/quote]

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