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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have an affair. Sex is great with my AP.[/quote]

So you are very open in hidden and anonymous interactions, but are too cowardly to tell the only person whose knowledge matters, your spouse.  Who taught you that sneaking around and hiding were the hallmarks of a person worth emulating?  [/quote]

And what changes if they actually talk to their spouse about being upset at lack of sex? That’s right, nothing. The spouse makes excuses, says they’ll change and try, then it’s 3 weeks later and no still no sex. Fk that sht. Sometimes cheating is okay. Lack of intimacy in a marriage is grounds for divorce.[/quote]

I'm not with you on the cheating. But the "communication is the cure" people are naive and delusional. Often times, it's just hormones. "Communicating" isn't going to change that. Either the couple can live with the status quo or they can't. If they can't - in my opinion - divorce is the answer. [/quote]

Anyone who is not mentally ill can live without sex. . . 
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By your logic, you can live with your husband having sex with another woman, assuming you just decide to cut him off from sex for reasons other than cancer, etc.

Deciding “I don’t feel like it anymore” is not a valid reason.  If you disagree, well, have fun living with all your cats.[/quote]

What happens if he becomes selfish in bed and now is not very good at? [/quote]

If he was bad at it before you married him, your dumb for marrying him.

If he becomes bad over time, he doesn't care about your pleasure and you should outsource it.[/quote]

You can’t outsource your pleasure if your husband doesn’t do about 50% of the parenting. Mine dumps everything on me in addition to my full-time job so the only way I will be able to find pleasure with another person is if I first leave him.  It’s not a question of if but when. [/quote]

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