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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't speak to remarriage, but I was very ambivalent about marriage even with my longtime partner until one day I wasn't and decided I wanted to get married. It was because we went through a series of major life issues, including him being hospitalized and me losing a parent. It made me realized that making it "official" would make it easier for us and for others, because it helps clarify our situation for everyone. There are some legal reasons it's useful. But then when we actually got it done, it was emotional too. It felt important to have made it formal and really tied our futures together in a permanent way.

But I didn't realize that when we first moved in together. It took time and experience to understand why getting married would be something I cared about.

Maybe you GF experienced something similar. If her first marriage was bad, she may have gone into a relationship with you with a negative view on marriage, but have started to realize there might be a version of marriage that is good.

If you disagree, you should be honest with her. [/quote]

You can draw up legal documents for this without being married.[/quote]

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