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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]No ruder than them excluding one of your family members. [url][/quote] False. I don’t want children at my wedding. They are too disruptive. And it costs too much.[/quote] [b]What a lucky man your imaginary husband is. :roll: [/quote][/b] What is your problem? They made a valid point. Children aren’t invited on purpose.[/quote] If my kids aren’t welcome or family to a relatives wedding, neither am I and I’m not interested in going. This is not a young child. [/quote] +1 Excluding 10+ year olds is very different from excluding babies and toddlers. There's something off about adults who can't even tolerate a big kid or teen.[/quote] There's not! It's usually a question of numbers. Most people do not invite kids to weddings. If OP had four kids, that would be four additional plates. Many of their guests probably have kids -- where do you draw the line? [/quote] I didn’t invite children to my wedding and it boggles my mind now to find out how apparently people are enraged by that. I have over 20 cousins who my parents insisted I invite, along with their spouses. About half of those also have children, none of whom I am particularly close to. The only way we could cut back enough on our guest list to invite our own friends was to come up with a firm rule about no children, which cut back about 20 cousins/children of cousins in addition to kids of coworkers etc. I doubt any of those kids really wanted to go, maybe one or two girls would have enjoyed dressing up. Oh well.[/quote]
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