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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d be more surprised and hurt that my friend was talking smack about me behind my back and the content of her bad mouthing wouldn’t really matter.

If they were talking about cooking and she said “Karla isn’t a very good cook but she has some recipes I’ve tried myself and liked”, and you over heard and her response was “I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to be unkind - what a stupid thing for me to say out loud, I’m sorry”, I’d totally forget about it and move on.

Again- the problem is your friend got angry and said a mean thing about you behind your back for the sole purpose of hurting your feelings. Doesn’t matter what the thing is she said [/quote]

My experience has been that women always do this. Every group I've been in will smack talk one of the group who isn't there. I automatically dislike the person who starts the gossip, but most women seem to go along with it and join in. Most are insecure and are happy the gossip isn't about them. If you don't join in or let them know you want no part of the trash talk, you will upset the alpha gossip mom and you will become the target. This is a pattern that repeats again and again. [/quote]

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