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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The fact the OP is expressing their concern about "uninhibited" remarks in the context of conservative parents is a huge red flag. And then basically doubles down by suggesting that old people don't need to earn respect. These days, old people are more likely to be awful human beings than young people. You should be appropriately polite for the circumstance, but respect only comes after it's earned.[/quote]

Respect should be a starting point not an end point.[/quote]

Disagree. Respect is meaningless if it comes for free. You need to earn it- whether you're 10, 22, or 60.[/quote]

No. This is the difference between the civilized and uncivilized. You probably freak out for being 'disrespected' if someone bumps into you on the sidewalk. That's not civilized behavior.[/quote]

You might confusing respect with politeness. You should be polite, yes. But respect should be earned.[/quote]

Still nope. That is not advice that will get you far in life.[/quote]

And following your advice is how we ended up with Trump.

I'm much more comfortable with my approach. Old people should be viewed with suspicion until they demonstrate they're not awful.[/quote]

At least you’re making it pretty clear that you are awful with your quick judgment of people because of their age. [/quote]

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