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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do feel the boy should pay for dates.  But as teens, I would not expect nor encourage (by us paying for) expensive gifts and dinners.  I would encourage him to work for spending money, and/or do free cheap dates and make inexpensive gifts for each other.  [/quote]

Why should boys pay?   Each pay their own except a special occasion.  Parents, pay, not teens.  My kid is saving his money for retirement and college.  I’m not paying for your kid every meal.  If they are with us, we’d pay but them hanging out or a date, no. [/quote]

I have a boy and a girl and I can tell you it’s significantly more expensive for girls to look like typically dressed and groomed girls in this area than it is for boys to do the same. I tell both my kids to be generous and considerate about paying but it’s more complicated than you suggest. [/quote]

It is only more expensive is they choose it to be. Guys can choose to be into skin care products, fashion, brands, and hair care too if they want to be, but many choose not to be. Girls can also choose to be into that stuff or not into it. It isn't more expensive for girsl to be dressed and groomed than boys. [/quote]

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