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[quote=Anonymous]No one knows what will happen.

I have two friends who marrried men who were 15-20 years older than them.

the first one -- he already had three kids, he said he wanted to have kids with her, but he wasn't at all enthusiastic about it so they never ended up doing it. SHe also had a lot of drama with the step kids and a LOT with the ex wife (with kids, this person never goes away). They divorced when she was near 40 and she never ended up remarrying or having kids.

They actually love each other and stay in touch. But the marriage was so complicated. I wonder if she would do differently if she could go back in time.

the second person married an extremely high net worth person, like $16 million penthouse in NYC. she had two kids with him and then really disengaged from him and became less interested in him. They grew apart, divorced in her early 40s, now she has 50 percent custody and a new partner.

She does love her kids and Im sure she wishes she had them 100 percent of the time. I also dont know if she has regrets. But definitely a more complicated path than marrying someone who will be a partner for life. [/quote]

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