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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]His older sister is in mid-50’s and he suspects opioid addiction.  ... has been late making her apartment payments the last few years (as evidenced by one eviction and now numerous proceedings from the apartment company against her).  
...mother is living, retired (also never worked a day in her life), lives in a nice paid off condo, drives a Mercedes.  I asked DH about her contribution to paying for her daughter and he seems to not want to broach it with her.

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SIL is in her 50's and can't pay her rent. Does SIL have adult children?  Married but separated?  OP have kids with DH? MIL has a condo and nice car.  Has MIL been giving SIL an allowance monthly?  Pre rehab or medical SIL needs somewhere to live.  DH won't broach the medical costs with MIL and since MIL drives around I assume she's competent.

DH must discuss SIL objectively with his mother: place to live, budget, medicaid...[/quote]

SIL is unmarried, no children.  Yes, MIL is competent, no clue whether she is giving SIL an allowance.  Agree that DH must discuss objectively with his mother, as opposed to taking on the responsibility.  [/quote]

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