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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Okay, what "minor" events caused childhood trauma in her life? [/quote]

OP here. She would accuse us of abusing her because we made college funding contingent on her attending church, losing 20 lbs (she was extremely overweight during her middle 2 years of college), and majoring in something practical (that last thing didn't happen). These are all things that she called "abusive." [/quote]

This has got to be a troll or the most extreme narcissist I’ve yet encountered on DCUM.

Children do not ask to be born. They certainly didn’t ask to be born into the messed up, every-man-for-himself world we have right now where a young person must depend on their parents well after turning 18 and/or for paying for college in order to them to secure a livelihood. Your DD did not ask to be born, did not ask for you to be her “parent”, and certainly deserved better than “parents” who “help” with so many strings attached.

You seem to have nothing but contempt for your daughter. Well that sucks. If you cut her off financially, it may well be the thing that pushes her to find her way into stable employment, but it will cost her your future relationship, as it should. She does not owe you a relationship.

Being raised by a narcissist is no small trauma, though I’m sure it all looks frivolous to you, well, because you are the narcissist and incapable of introspection.

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