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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are of Chinese descent. We would never invite anyone to our house and expect them to pay hefty for entertainment or anything, or leave them out for group activities we initiate. That’s just inconsiderate and rude. I am appalled by this thread.[/quote]

If we include you in a family activity, we treat you as family. Period.[/quote]

My family is of Vietnamese descent, and my college-aged son has invited his white girlfriend to join us on a four-week vacation to South America starting tomorrow. My husband and I will be traveling with them, and we plan to treat her like family. She’ll be flying first class with us to Buenos Aires, staying at a five-star hotel, and enjoying whatever activities my son and his girlfriend choose, all at our expense.  My husband has also given my son a platinum American Express card to cover any spending expense between he and his GF during the trip. From what I've seen, this young woman is humble, kind, and considerate, and I could genuinely see her as a future daughter-in-law. I just hope my son doesn’t screw things up. Regardless of the activities, we’ll treat her like part of the family, and whether they choose to share a room or have separate accommodations is their choice.  After all, they’re adults, and it’s none of my business.

As the PP said, it is just inconsiderate and rude to expect her to pay for the trip, at least in my Vietnamese culture.[/quote]

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