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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]He knows exactly how skewed the dynamic is and he's telling you that you're going to deal with this or else he'll impoverish you.[/quote]

This gave me chills. This dynamic is so evil. [/quote]
PP here. Yes, evil is their exact right word for this man and many other men like him. A lot of women live with evil people in the form of their husbands. The reality is so disturbing and terrifying, and society is so cruel in blaming women who are the mercy of these evil men, that women end up deep in denial. Hence posts like OP's (and that's not a criticism of you, OP -- neither this bastard's behavior nor your denial are your fault).[/quote]

OP here. I appreciate your kind words.

I've mentioned a few times that he wasn't always like this.

Thanks for your reply.[/quote]
Oh, he was always like this. You just didn't know because he didn't have you where he needed you. Once he had you tied down with children, he could show you his true colors and you were weren't going to run anywhere. Wasn't he right?[/quote]

OP here. Ugh, this is a sucker punch to read but you're right.

I have been so caught up with the children that I guess I didn't have time to sit and ponder, I just have to get shit done.

I have been relentless, though, about getting off electronics. Hasn't stuck yet. Don't think it ever will.[/quote]

We can only control ourselves.  Can’t change anyone else. I have loved this and it was horrible.  I finally left. Far too late. [/quote]

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