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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Idiots will say idiotic things. I just don't react when that happens. OP, you are right to feel offended. But, refusing to host for this reason is unnecessarily confrontational. I just do not give weight to any nonsense that others speak. Elderly tend to lose their filter and will say such things. This is age-related cognitive decline. [/quote] Not hosting isn’t confrontational. It’s literally nothing. MIL can offer to host them and show them how it’s done, or else she can figure out Christmas di. We herself.[/quote] It is confrontational to disinvite. She can decide not to host next year, but it’s too late this year. Time to tell her husband that she is done doing all the work to get ready for his mother.[/quote] Nope, that’s not what confrontational means. Sorry.[/quote]
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