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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand why this is so difficult for some men to understand. Feminism is about equal rights, not equal outcomes. I want the *right* to choose who I date, who I marry, who has access to my money, the right to choose what I do with my money, the right to get divorced for any reason, and the right to do what I want with my own body. That does not mean I want an equal outcome between me and the man I date. I just want the same rights as him. So I choose to date men who are generous with their money. That is my right. Just like it is your right to only date women who split things 50/50. We both have the right to choose what we want. If we end up single and alone because nobody wants that, well, everyone is exercising their rights freely and that’s what happens. None of us are owed a partner. If you complain “that’s not fair!” then you are trying to take away my right to choose who I date or if I want to date at all. I get to make those choices for myself, the same as you. And I would absolutely rather be single than deal with some dusty man who wants to split everything 50/50. I’d rather use than money to go out with my girlfriends.[/quote] That's not what OP was talking about. He seems to be ok to cover her expenses but doesn't like her being fake and using feminism to suit herself whenever it is needed. She is definitely selfish and I am sure she is not even a feminist because they would have covered their expenses or ended the relationship if see that the partner is uncomfortable. Also, she doesn't have any desire to be in a long-term relationship if she continues to use people like this. Telling daughter to not go 50/50 on expenses is telling them to be sneaky and use the other person. If she is really a feminist then she should have let her daughter decide how she wants to continue the relationship and not push her thoughts on her. [/quote]
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