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[quote=Anonymous]"In dead bedroom marriages its really tough for the high libido partner. Its like you married me and I’m a high earner, but, I really start to resent the stress of my job and its not healthy for me. I decide without agreement from you partner that I’m done working, or I just quiet quit. Its a major change to our relationship and you ptobably would divorce me.

Not really how my marriage works, but you do you. If my husband was in an unhealthy position due to his job, I'd absolutely support him quitting. If your wife was in an unhealthy position and declining sex, I'd have assumed you'd support her. I guess you'll just leave instead."

You ignored the crucial words "I decide without agreement from you." Most spouses, of either gender, aren't okay with the other deciding unilaterally to change something so central to the marriage as financial resources or physical intimacy. And most responsible adults don't just quit a job that their family depends on without first making a plan and lining up another job first. Similarly, a spouse having low interest in sex would be expected to make a plan for figuring out how to mitigate the fall out from stopping sex.

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