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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you sure he doesn’t plan to remarry quickly? Then the new wife would simply continue instead of grandma.[/quote] This is the most pressing concern. The grandmother is red herring. He could easily be planning to have a girlfriend watch the kids while he travels. You should definitely ask for right of first refusal. [/quote] I agree. I think the ex may get 50/50 (it's presumed in many places, including where I am) but there should be a right of first refusal clause in there. The child should defenitely be with a parent if the other one is away. And the ex would still have 50/50. OP, you could set the ROFR for 8 hours, so if exdh leaves to travel, it would trigger it, but if your mom is watching dc for a few hours, it won't. There is no reason mil should be caring for dc if a parent is available. It's in dc's best interest to have time with both parents.[/quote]
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