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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][img][quote=Anonymous]OP you and your ex seem very similar in terms of being spiteful people who care more about winning than your child. It doens't seem either parent is really focused on the child - both are too caught up in getting back at the other.

Keep fighting and being spiteful and nasty and he will be the same in return and you can both continually focus on all the wrong things and forget there is a child in the middle of this who you are both prepared to drag around and ruin any stability he has to prove your own points and to be right. You don't come across as a better person or parent than your ex in any way. [/quote]

Come to my house a year ago, listen to him scream at my child, go through discovery and look at his financial deception, and then maybe be there the day he had me served out of nowhere in person in front of our child.

Those details were really not helpful when I was just trying to get advice about how family caregiving and custody work, but they are now when people are going late night angry troll on me.[/quote]

[b]If he was such an awful parent, you should have left him years ago.[/b] But then again all these extra “facts” are likely lies to get more people to side with your POV.[/quote]

Bolded above is the classic ignorant dumb comment and viewpoint from people who have ZERO clue about the dynamics of being in an abusive relationship. Take your ignorance elsewhere, PP.
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STFU. OP started this thread wanting to control her ex and what he does with his custody. When she didn’t get the support she expected she decided to start bread crumbing details to gain more sympathy. There’s no abuse here, just someone scorned that her ex surprised her with a divorce. [/quote]

A kid isn’t a possession that you can do whatever you want with on your custody time. His plan to keep his travel schedule the same but demand 50-50 isn’t tenable and a court likely wouldn’t see it as in the child’s best interests. [/quote]

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