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[quote=Anonymous]Here’s how I would play it: Agree to 50/50 custody. Be super accommodating and understanding—especially in the beginning. You want him to let his guard down. Realistically, there’s no way that this elderly woman is going to be able to fly across the world once a month. When her flight is delayed, you graciously offer to take the kids. No fights, no I told you so, just happy and supportive. Meticulously track of all of these overnights in a court approved parenting app. Once you have 6 months to a year of documented overnights during his custody time, file to amend custody to what is actually happening. Ask your lawyer how long you should document, but generally courts are very good about making these types of adjustments. Play the long game. [/quote]
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