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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm surprised more people did not work this out and get over their fears in high school.

I remember building up my courage, approaching a girl to ask for her phone # after class. I didn't think I might have to see her everyday for the next three years! She might tell her friends and she'll laugh at me! My friends might find out and laugh, etc.

I'm Gen X so maybe a little older than most of the posters here.[/quote]

The “me too” movement didn’t exist back then. The current generation has been raised to be more careful and respectful. They are less courageous because they have so much more to lose. They don’t want to take a risk in public when they can do it on dating sites.[/quote]

There is a big difference between talking to someone and risking a me too moment if you don’t know the difference, please don’t talk to women. At all.[/quote]

No. The point is any interaction with a random woman could turn in to a problem for a man. No one is talking about me too which is rape. We have all seen the TikTok videos of women going out of their way to embarrass men. We all know women who would lose their sh#t if a man talks to them.

It is stupid to attack men for “not having courage” to approach a woman when the women saying this never approach men because they are afraid of rejection. This is without the additional possibility of being filmed and laughed at. This shows a lack of empathy.[/quote]

No… this response is incredibly paranoid.

Also, if you’re not doing anything wrong and have a healthy sense of self - laughter shouldn’t be bothering you. We all get rejected sometimes.

if someone is going to film you  that’s not the right person for you so it’s not a loss. You are able to stop the interaction if it’s not going well. And when you have good people skills that comes naturally. Thinking everything is going to become some viral online moment is not a good way to live.[/quote]

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