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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women don’t want to be approached. They prefer to complain about being alone since they don’t approach either.[/quote]

I hate this narrative.  The reality is that as a women you always have to be concerned about physical safety and you always have to be concerned how a guy will react if you turn him down.  I don’t owe anyone a date. Just as men can have physical preferences and they would ask out someone they are attracted to, I am fully in my right to date someone I am attracted to. Full stop.  Now I fully get why OLD is so popular, even if it’s to meet the person who is sitting next you in the same room because then you hope at least - yes attracted to each other and it’s easier to say no and feel safer. Though online you still have to be careful how you say no to a date - there are people that will go off and write craziness.

So when people say don’t make it creepy - it needs to feel safe to interact and they have to feel comfortable enough to say no and you won’t go off on some red pill diatribe or curse them out.  I met my now DH and a bbq with mutual friends.  That was the perfect environment for me and I was thrilled he asked for my phone number.

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