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[quote=Anonymous]OP, wow. Your previous post said you were starting a new job on Sept 2nd with a big raise and bonus potential - did that happen? Weird coincidence that your ex lost his job and revived all this drama at almost exactly the same time as your new job.

For now you need to stop trying to solve his problems for him. Where he lives, how he affords it, what he's able to do for his kids are not your responsibility.

Your priority should be figuring out how to get your kids and yourself health insurance stat. Presumably that's going to blow your budget (PP mentioned a $2400 monthly payment and a $130k salary.) You mentioned in a previous post that your entire extended family lives nearby - are they able/willing to help financially or possibly take you and your kids in while you stabilize your finances?

And bemoaning that this is going to cramp your dating life is pretty nuts OP, as is getting seriously involved with a new man while juggling two small kids and an unstable alcoholic separated DH with precarious finances.
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