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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]FWIW, I've been married once, and we are still married.

But all this hate for people who have been divorced even once, let alone twice.

I know we love to be judgey, but I don't think an early marriage in your 20s, then a 10-25 year marriage that ends in divorce, is so horrible. Not ideal, maybe. Something to be cognizant of and see how the individual handles it, but lets give a little grace here.

I see it as a belief in love and romance. It may not work out. Fine. Learn something and move on.  I don't see it as a moral failing. I do see all the judging as a moral failing, though.

Just maybe take individuals one at a time rather.[/quote]

I would take them at extreme caution. OP basically described my DH and he's very controlling, critical, double standards/hypocritical, punched a wall next to me in an argument, and has threatened to kill me because he didn't like how I talked to him in an argument about nothing that matters. None of this came out until we were married and he felt “trapped” and blamed me for “ruining his life”. When we dated, he described his ex as the “devil” Amd continued to express hate throughout their coparenting relationship.  Anyone who blames their ex for their failed relationship or other problems should be viewed with extreme caution. Me - I will never date again. [/quote]

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