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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know I will get slammed, but most of these marriages are dead and transactional by that point anyway. It’s rarely a shock to anyone, and in retrospect, often a blessing.[/quote]
Marriage shouldn’t stop a father from being a father. If his marriage dissolves he’s no longer a husband, but he’s still a father. That isn’t an excuse for dead beats. [/quote]

Some moms want to cover up their affair and play happy family with the ap.  Dad’s role is only money and she refuses contact and alienates the kids.  It goes both ways.  [/quote]
Nope. You can’t alienate the kids if you’re an involved caring parent to begin with. Stop making excuses for lazy men who refuse to parent.[/quote]

Yes you can. You refuse phone calls and don’t have the kids there for dad’s time.  Go to court, judge fusses at mom, mom makes promises and still refuses.  Repeat.  Kids want to please so they want to please mom or there are consequences.  [/quote]
That’s not how it works. If the guy is a good dad, the kids will want to call him and talk to him. They will want to see him and spend time with him. They will not take kindly to mom telling them no. Maybe you or your kids were exceptionally doormat-ish, but that’s not how most kids are. You can’t alienate someone else who the kids cherish and idolize.

Just sounds like you weren’t a very good dad to begin with if the switch flips that easily 🤷‍♀️[/quote]

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