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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agreed with pp. A dad who engages with their kids is much hotter than a dad who just does chores. Do more house work but be sure to spend more time with the kids![/quote]

Ugh, no.  A dad who doesn't do housework but plays with the kids is a narcissistic fun dad.  Be a man, help with the chores, so you AND your wife can have fun times with the kids.

Also, OP, it's a huge turn off that you think your sole role is to go to work and make the big bucks and because that's your goal and you can afford nice things and nice vacation, you think you are excused from everything else.  You are treating your wife as a servant and a, basically, a hooker.  She feels it, and it's a turnoff. [/quote]

We don’t know how the household is organized. If the OP is bringing most money while the wife has an easier job with less demanding hours, it’s not fair to expect the same level of housework. Even if the money is not there, some industries and company cultures expect longer hours, so it is what it is, it’s not that easy to change jobs or fields.

It’s silly when other wives jump on the OP fueled by their own frustrations and turn everything to the extreme. If you felt your husband treated you as a hooker doesn’t mean OP is doing that to his wife.

OP feeling dissatisfied the wife is not having sex with him is valid. The wife feeling frustrated from doing a lot of the household work is also valid. But it’s not ok to decide on her own the marriage is sexless going forward because of that. The housework issue can be worked out with OP pitching in more or hiring a maid to lighten up the household work, and maybe OP would be receptive to that.

Denying sex because of frustrations is a sure way to ruin one’s marriage, she’s basically incentivizing her husband to cheat. It’s really counterproductive and short sighted, and actually quite stupid considering they have kids together. [/quote]

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