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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with the poster who said if you don't invite them and invite your other children you've created a FOREVER rift with your child.

I would invite them.  You love them and they are YOUR family, so go on vacation and don't take things they say personally.  Honestly there is a VERY short window left for family vacations.  Within a decade the family vacation your kids take will be with THEIR families - spouse, children.

I have a tween who doesn't appreciate me and what I do for her.  She may never.  But I promised to love her unconditionally and I will.  No child promises to love their parent. They didn't ask for us.  But I wished for her and to be a mom, so my job is to love her.  Barring physical abuse, I'd never cut her off.  I might decide to only take a vacation with my husband if her verbal and emotional abuse was too much for a family vacation. But I would never go on a family vacation with out her because of her not appreciating what I give her or only being interested in me when I am giving her something. If she is a drag, well, she is a drag.  I still lover her,
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