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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a woman who enjoys light bdsm I am left completely cold by the choking thing. It seems abusive and angry and weird. It’s really easy to go too far and I would be both saddened and frightened if that excited my partner.[/quote]

I would be frightened by " light BDSM". It all seems abusive and weird to someone.

Op, don’t let these judgmental opinions make you feel like you were foolish to try something with your spouse.

Focus on the PP's link on why strangulation is particularly dangerous. Dont do it again. Ever. And don't engage in any form of BDSM with your DH. If he tries anything else after you have made this clear to him, leave.

This one incident does not necessarily make your spouse a bad person. You might have to pay more attention to other signs to see if there is a larger danger lurking. But these same people telling you to leave him have spouses who watch people get beaten to a pulp for fun  or watch young men get brain damage from football as entertainment. Their spouses may enjoy violence just as much as yours does.

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