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[quote=Anonymous]Choking is a really bad idea even if it’s consensual. I get the appeal but would never consent to it because it can go wrong so quickly. Slapping on the face can also result in permanent damage especially if the person doing it has a ring or uses their palm instead of just fingertips. On top of this, OP’s DH says he didn’t hear her. Not hearing the person you love at their most vulnerable is an extreme level of carelessness. In any power exchange scenario, you should be checking in with each other before and during the session almost constantly, and communicating verbally and non verbally. Especially as a “dominant” (which I don’t think OP’s DH actually is), you don’t have the luxury to ever really let loose. OP, I am sorry you are going through this. Don’t underplay what this means for your relationship. It’s a serious matter. [/quote]
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