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[quote=Anonymous]I’ve dated people in other relationships, one married. It’s was their agreement being broken, not mine. No one had kids. I was single at the time and it was an easy way to have my needs met, spend time with someone great, and have a full life without the weight of a relationship.

I do understand the damage it could cause- that was their choice and commitment being broken not my own. In hindsight I prob should have looked for poly couples. So it was more transparent. I’m in a monogamous relationship now, due to my partner wanting that. I would be upset if they broke their agreement (cheated), but also if we had open communication about their wanting to be with another person I might be ok with that. It would take some emotional growth but there is an understanding that we can’t be all things to all people, including our partners.

Deception is awful. I do have remorse for any damage my previous relationships had. As far as I know they were never discovered. Also the men pursued me, one where I  did not initially know about their relationship and the other was a simultaneous affair where they became more serious with the other person over time and i ended it because I really liked their partner. We’re all still friends.  [/quote]

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