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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think my husband has a lot of responsibility for how I feel about my body.  He is literally the only person who sees me naked and the only person who can make explicit sexual comments about my body.  
If DH wasn’t constantly telling me that he likes my body, that he wants to see me wearing xyz, and that he likes one body part or another, then all of my thoughts about my body would be from inside my own head or from my mom.  And those are both terrible.  [/quote]

You really need to work on that voice in your head.[/quote]

I’m okay, really.  Terrible was probably a strong word to use.  But the reality is that I’m an overweight middle aged mom.  I’m not winning any beauty pageants.

It’s just that DH tells me something that he finds attractive about me pretty much every time I see him, so multiple times a day.  If I’m going to the gym, he will tell me that he likes my hair in a ponytail so my neck is exposed.  If I’m getting home from the gym, he will say that I look good all flushed like that.  If I’m in taking the kids to the pool in my middle aged mom tankini, he will say that my butt looks good.   If I go in my high waisted bikini, he will wolf whistle and ask if I need help putting sunscreen on.  Like touching the torso of his wife of twenty years is super hot and somewhat forbidden.

You might say that men can’t help their wives with body image issues, but they definitely can.   
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I think I will be single for the foreseeable future if that's the bare minimum we need to do as men. Seriously why do you need me to keep telling you you are still beautiful and multiple times a day. Hey good for you though. Are all married men like this? Wow [/quote]

The ones who regularly get laid are. [/quote]

Meh.

I do not know any woman who needs this much attention from their husband.

I am mostly close to first and second generation American women though so maybe there is something in the water here.

Recent immigrants have accepted that men and women are not the same. They rely on their social network for a lot of support. They rely on men for some but not anything near as much as this thread is indicating.[/quote]

I certainly do. And unless these women are sleeping with their girlfriends, its doubtful theyre getting their fill of sexual desire from them.[/quote]

Different strokes I guess.

You can get self esteem boost from people other than your spouse. You don't need your spouse telling you are beautiful all the time if other people do. You need it sometimes, sure. But not every day.

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The day a woman starts getting sexual fulfillment and her sexual desire needs filled by someone else, is the beginning of the end of the marriage. And certainly not a day when you will be able to expect enthusiastic sex from her (unless she's fantasizing about the other person the whole time) [/quote]

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