Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Do you judge other women based on the social status of their husbands?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No and it makes me really sad that people are even thinking about this in 2025. I feel like we are regressing - and rapidly![/quote] The only thing that is regressing is women who don't have jobs who are happy being a housewife in 2025, who never had or wanted a real job, and who don't have anything interesting to talk abou. That absolutely deserves judgment in 2025. [/quote] My best friend from college was a stay at home spouse. Not even stay at home mom. She had depression and this is how she managed it. She had a wonderful marriage and eventually two amazing kids. A few years ago, after her kids were more independent, she did get a job working in the school system. She's an introvert and perhaps not super interesting to you. But she created an incredible, loving family, with happy, stable, and now successful kids. She has always been a steadfast friend. Nobody knows everyone's story. We should be trying to support one another, not beating them down. [/quote] I was very close to a stay at home wife. I didn’t prod but it seemed like they were both immigrants from Australia and he was the only one legal to work, so that’s why she didn’t. And I’m glad I didn’t judge because I realized about five years later that this whole time I thought of her solely as “wife” they had been privately struggling with living far from relatives and battling miscarriages. They went on to return to their homeland and have four healthy kids after treating the (rare) fertility problem. You don’t know the details of peoples’ lives so don’t judge.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics