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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does your husband know that you are aware of his emotional affair OP??[/quote]

Yes-- out in the open now. Maybe it wasn't quite an "affair" but was flirty and inappropriate  and possibly heading that way.
He agreed to lessen the talking and focus on us. Like I said, we were on horribly shaky ground before this so we have some work to do.
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The guy I am in an EA with told his wife that too and he did it to some degree.  That hasn't changed the way we feel about each other or the extent of our interaction except in minor ways.  His marriage is also on very shaky ground but he doesn't want to intentionally hurt her.  I'm just telling you this so you know that him saying that doesn't necessarily mean a whole hell of a lot.  I actually knew him before she did and our emotions aren't going anywhere.[/quote]

Are you also married? How long has he been? Any kids? What is your goal with this? Only so much I can do I guess. If he leaves me he leaves me, so be it. I am not going to beg. His EA person is single and extremely attention seeking (at least on social)[/quote]

I am not married, he's been married five years, they don't have kids together, I have no goal, I just love him and he loves me and that's it.  Not physical but pretty close to it. He is very torn between his feelings and his commitment to his marriage. I respect that but I don't want to lose him.  I hope your husband does not have the intensity of feelings we have, it's very hard to fight that.[/quote]
You’re wasting your life on a cake-eater. His feelings for you are so intense that he can’t be bothered to leave his wife and be with you, LOL. Low self-esteem?[/quote]

PP is likely borderline personality disorder (she “knew him first?” Like that makes it acceptable? GMAFB). Regardless, years will pass and she will miss her opportunity to find an available partner, and her AP’s loyalty will continue to be to his wife.  [/quote]

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