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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you (quietly) accept that you are the competent adult. You live as if you were a solo parent - of course you do. If he's bringing in a salary, if he's bringing in a good salary and manages to keep his job, no matter what that looks like - you are grateful. You set boundaries re: spending - separate discretionary accounts. And not too much money in the account he can access. Maybe he only has a debit card and not a credit card on him, for his spending. There are lots of ways you can be in control. You have to rise to the task, feel and be empowered, and you need to do it quietly [/quote]
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