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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the bottom line is the OP bought a house she can't really afford. She decimated her retirement savings to purchase it and put too much down on it. You may want to work forever, but as others have said that may not be an option due to an unexpected decline in health, layoff, etc. If was OP, I would be working to aggressively save and bring in more money NOW. Since you bought a $700K house, I'm assuming it's more than one bedroom. I would take on a roommate to make extra money, see about getting a second job in retail or something on the weekends, and max out 401K, do an IRA, and also contribute to an after-tax investment account. You have a lot a catching up to do with your retirement account. And, most importantly do NOT start spending even more money on the house (furniture, upgrades, renos), except for required maintenance. [/quote] Lol OP is 42. OP is fine folks. [/quote] Op has zero savings and like others have pointed out, job security isn’t guaranteed through your 60s. for better or for worse OP is now heavily invested in an asset that is very expensive (a house paid for with an expensive source of capital - withdrawing the 401k and paying taxes/penalties) instead of an asset that is cheap (stock indices). It was a very very stupid financial move. So yes, OP needs to carefully budget to ensure money is going back into the 401k and also take care to make sure their career is on track and that they are in a good position to work through their mid/late 60s. Possibly look for a job transition that increases earning potential. If all goes well, yes, OP has 25 more years to work and save and should be ok. But if OP continues to be a financial idiot then no. Check in here in 20 years to hear all about how OP has a giant second mortgage on the home because they felt entitled to use the equity on a kitchen reno and dream vacations … [/quote] I am not an economist but I hope we have one who can shed light on this. What's the future of the American economy if people start losing hope of a secure job as soon as they reach 40? When read some of the comments it's as if once you get to 40 and lose your job you are done. Is the average American really able to save enough to retire in their early 50s if they work between the ages of 22 and 49? [/quote] There is no such thing as a “secure job” and there never has been. Your entire premise is flawed. The average American will still be working, not retired, until late 60s. It simply won’t be in the same job at the same rate they do today. This board is skewed from reality because the feds thought they could play solitaire for 40 years and still be paid once they got in. Welcome to real life.[/quote]
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