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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][ He is an active father but sucks at anything house related. I do all the shopping, cooking, managing outsourcing crews, 95% of the childcare, scheduling/taking kids to appointments, handling childcare. I work part time making 60k. He works full time and makes 400-500k a year. I have full access to our money. I just want him to step up more with the household labor. He has said he is busy working to support our family to give me the ability to stay home. [/quote] Op you are wrong. You’re not married for money at all. What your DH make is solid middle class. You still have to work for 60k a year. I thought you were talking about married a billionaire or something and you just chilling at home but unhappy how he act or treated you . Anyway, your DH just isn’t a helpful father or husband. That’s it. Gotta tell him to step up or hire help. [/quote] Yea I agree - you didn’t really “marry for money”. He makes good money but clearly not insane money. My DH makes $700k and I make $150k - I do the majority of household/parenting items because DH works a lot. If he someday starts making well over $1 million a year I may step back from work but at this point [b]we both need to work[/b]. [/quote] Learn what “need” means before you post again.[/quote] PP - we started making $160,000 when we first got married and have steadily increased every year. We have 3 kids and have paid off all our student loans over the course of a decade and a half. We are aggressively saving for college and for retirement. [/quote] Cool story. Your husband makes $700k. You absolutely do not “need” to work. Stop playing dumb.[/quote] +1 these posts claiming 700k isn’t enough…I just can’t. My HHI is under 200k and we feel so fortunate to have what we need.[/quote] Same here. I actually sometimes feel sorry for these rich idiots who must be horrifically bad with money (and probably general self sufficiency). But usually I just find them annoying.[/quote]
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