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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There’s a couple we’ve been vacationing with for at least 15 years, our kids don’t come anymore and neither do theirs. 
We were all just joking over drinks about trading husbands for the vacation, on the last night she knocked on our door and came in, she didn’t say a word, I knew exactly why she was there and I was fine with it. I got up and went to her room to find her husband waiting for me. For five years now we’ll switch beds in the middle of the night, no one talks about it, sometimes it doesn’t happen but when it does it is so much fun.[/quote]

It's not weird the next day? Do you talk to the other spouse at all when you are with them or is it just physical?[/quote]

Of course, these are close friends. We all talk, laugh, snorkel, pick out lunch spots, play cards, skip each other’s songs on the playlist etc. To clarify, it’s only happened one night of what is typically a 6 night vacation and of the four times it’s happened it’s been towards the end of the trip. Neither us or our friends engage in any swinging type things beyond our trip to the beach that I know of. [/quote]

Sorry, I meant do you connect emotionally with the other spouse when you are with them or is it transactional?[/quote]
We’re respectful of each other’s relationships for sure, we don’t communicate during the year one on one, there’s my friend and I and then a group thread. These are what I’d consider my dearest friends, I love them, they love me, they love my partner, it’s emotional all year but sexual for a few hours if that makes sense. [/quote]

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