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[quote=Anonymous]2 kids in daycare at the same time is a huge expense.  I didn't have 2 kids at once but delayed having each additional because I didn't want to pay 2 infant daycare bills.

It sounds to me like she feels guilty she isn't home to educate them and is outsourcing to ensure they are off to a great start.  Staying at home or working part time would likely be better for her and you financially but based on this post you aren't trust worthy enough to allow her to do that.  If you are talking divorce over this she can't trust you and become a sahm  she needs to have money when you flake out.

I would stop putting my money into the joint account.  I would allocate for the things I'm willing to pay and that's it.  You need to do the research yourself and put in the work to find  lower cost and safe daycare option.  Go explore and interview care givers.  Our kids went to an expensive daycare not because I wanted but because the other choices in my community had safety issues.  [/quote]

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