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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, he is trying to control you financially. Don’t waste any more time on him. [/quote]

Oh she will.  She definitely will.  Time is free, which she is willing to let him control.  Money is not apparently.  Lol!  [/quote]

And it's really nice to have a man pay your bills. No wonder she has all of this extra money to spend on BS. [/quote]

Exactly. Is he controlling or is she using him so she can save and spend as she likes w/o having to make rent? 
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I’m not using him to save money. I was already saving money when I was living on my own. The money I used to spend on my place ( I bought a condo at 22) is now put into a separate account for our future like our wedding or down payment on a house. It’s still my money but I’ve been putting it aside so he doesn’t have to endure all the expenses.

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But it’s still your money.

If you are seriously thinking of a future with him, you two need to talk about what that looks like because your current arrangement doesn’t work for either of you.

My advice is you move back out for six months while you two figure this out and you stop blaming him for your decisions. [/quote]

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