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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My brother had an affair when his son was 3-4 years old and married ap when son was about 5 (ap was pregnant). They now have two children / have been married about a decade. I don’t ageee with how they went about things, but she adores my nephew and he’s crazy about his younger siblings and his “bonus” grandparents. My former SIL doesn’t see it this way (for obvious reasons) but it really is more love for their son at this point. My former SIL is really kind to my brother’s other children, but doesn’t deal well with my brother or SIL after 10 years. My brother and his wife also behave poorly sometimes even though I know all three adults love my nephew. As hard as it is, I wish they’d all let the anger and pettiness go after 10 years because there are times that they make choices to spite each other than affect my nephew. [/quote]

Just curious is there a meaningful age gap here at all?[/quote]

No, not meaningful (second wife is 2.5 years younger than first wife)

A friend had a husband who had an emotional affair and he married the other woman. They share custody. She updated her will to have the new wife be the guardian after her / her ex because she wanted them to stay in a home they already lived in and with an adult who cared for them if anything happened to her. I was impressed despite bitterness toward her ex she could have this perspective

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