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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand the expectation of inhertance. That's a parents choice based on many factors. If Dad remarries and is married 30-40+ years after this marriage, its not reasonable to expect her to get nothing and live in poverty. She should inherit it all and they need to agree on how to leave the proceeds. My sibling got both my parents to change their wills and leave them everything - or at least that's what they said (I cut them off at that point). It is what it is.[/quote] [b]A spouse, at minimum, gets an elective share of 33-50% of the deceased person's estate. You can't disinherit your spouse. [/b] It is contrary to public policy as it shifts the responsibility to care for the living spouse from the marriage to the taxpayers. Also, some people may not realize that some or much of a couple's apparent wealth may belong to their stepmom. Previously married men had to divide their assets in half plus many pay child support, alimony, and kids' expenses, including possibly their college, and may not have much left over when they pass. Sometimes, his wife is the one who saved, so the accounts are in her name and not a part of his estate. [/quote] That depends on the laws of each state, and on how assets are titled. [/quote]
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