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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Worse to be never married single mom. Abort op. Don’t bring a kid into that situation and in the future use birth control. [/quote]

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Bringing a baby into this world with a loving partner is stressful, let alone the situation OP is in!
OP is questioning whether it's better to be a single mom or a divorced mom. The real question is whether she needs be a mom in the first place.
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I’m am completely pro-choice and have zero issues with anyone having an abortion for any reason, but telling someone to just have an abortion is callous and cruel. Some of you people are just so incredibly gross.

Op, have the baby or don’t, get married or don’t. You either have what it takes to go it alone or you don’t. Being a mother is not easy, being a single mother is not easy either, but I’m not sure it’s that much harder than being dependent on or needing to rely on someone who has little respect for you.

I have numerous friends who eat a lot of bitter and sh$@t, and have to do it with a smile on their faces, all because they believe it’s what is best for the family, or whatever they tell themselves, but they are miserable.

Do what you think is right. I have tremendous respect for single moms. And I know a lot of other people do too, and not in a condescending, or in an I’m better than you way, but rather genuine respect.

No matter what you do, do it with your head held high.

Be confident, be strong, find joy, and if necessary fake it till you make it.[/quote]

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