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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are people here so so angry when someone speaks about grooming and hygiene? Why the long angry screens and cursing and name calling? They call OP judgmental but they are the judgmental ones. My theory is that this generation, without the books and magazines we had, conceives that norms and expertise and best practiced are concepts that do not exist. The concepts of wearing what is flattering, following expertise to have nice looking skin and hair and coordinated attire do not exist. One is either naturally good looking effortlessly and too bad for everyone else. That is sad to me, for 99% of us it takes work to look good and that has always been the norm, that is why style exists. But the theory of style is gone. Either you wake up looking great or cry on tiktok asking why am I so ugly.[/quote] I'm probably older than you and worked in some important, very stressful jobs. It's insulting to insist that women focus on this 1950s triviality. No one cares whether someone's skin is moisturized at work. I couldn't care less about someone's manicure. Op doesn't understand personal boundaries and is obsessed with the meaningless. So many adults are busy working themselves to death trying to manage their families, commutes etc and these posts are belittling. People would do better to ignore these posts which are meant only to shame and focus on more meaningful activities for self care in what little spare time they have. [/quote]
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