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[quote=Anonymous]Why don’t you hire a cleaner? Your husband isn’t going to change. I also married an immigrant and he is NEVER going to change. I’m a stay at home mom. A lot of his friends told him not to marry me because he wouldn’t be able to control me 😂 They were right. At the time I was 22 and didn’t know what they meant by control. Later I found out most of the women in his country are homebodies and rarely go out. My husband would never lash out at me in public though.. that’s horrible. About 2 weeks after an emergency C-section he said something like I should have married a girl from my country because he felt like I wasn’t helping with the baby enough. I was so angry. I went to stay with my parents for several weeks and I did that a lot during the first year. These men have no idea how it is “back home” anymore and we aren’t living in their countries. Most of us can’t afford that kind of household help. My marriage is a lot better but again my husband isn’t going to change. He washes the dishes sometimes, takes out the trash and recycling, makes bagels or cereal for the kids and that’s about it. He 100 percent provides. I’m still resentful but less so. Fighting isn’t worth the energy or stress anymore. I would absolutely hire a cleaner if we could afford it!

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