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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Suss out if he’s immature and lacks adult skills in every realm. [/quote]

Op is all over the place like a troll.

Responds to some things, ignores others, keeps posting absurdities, says he’s wonderful in so many other vague ways yet he’s unresponsive for property repairs. [/quote]
I don’t know about that. OP sounds like my DH when he gets on a tear about something.  He’ll email lists of things “we” (he means me) need to do, then follow up every few days to check on my progress.  This happens by email now, because I stopped taking his calls during the workday and he’s smart enough not to bug me when I’m driving the kids around or making dinner.

If he brings it up at home, I’ll just tell him I understand what he wants see happen, but his project is about 20 items down on my to-do list, and I’ll let him know when I’m ready to focus. He’ll then either do the project himself or wait until I’m ready to talk about it.  He is only sort of aware that I will always refuse to drop everything to help him on this sort of non-essential and/or non-pressing priority of his, but he has come to be more patient with my timeline and approach when the alternative is him having to do the work. [/quote]

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